Prodigal Parent Quiz

When my child pulls away emotionally or spiritually, my first internal reaction is…

I need to step in before this gets worse I must have done something wrong as a parent I should stay calm and not make things harder This is something I just have to carry I can't let myself feel this — it hurts too much

How often do you replay conversations or wonder what you should have said differently?

Often — I keep thinking about what I missed Constantly — I analyze my parenting choices Frequently — it weighs on me quietly Rarely — I try not to go there Sometimes — but I try to let it go

Which statement feels closest to the truth right now?

If I don't stay engaged, things could spiral I just want to know I didn't fail I'm afraid of pushing them further away This pain has become part of my life I've learned not to expect much

How much does your sense of peace rise or fall based on how your child is doing?

Completely A lot Somewhat Most of the time Very little

What do you fear most in this season?

Losing influence altogether Being seen as a bad parent Losing the relationship Not seeing any redemptive purpose in this pain Being hurt again

When you think about reaching out, you usually…

Feel compelled to give advice Rehearse what to say over and over Hesitate and say nothing Feel emotionally exhausted Keep your distance

Which statement feels most uncomfortable to accept?

I can't control their journey My worth isn't defined by how my child turns out I can stay connected without fixing I don't have to keep hurting to be faithful Protecting myself may be costing the relationship

More than anything, what do you long for right now?

Peace Reassurance Connection Meaning Relief